Divorced and Dating Over 50? How Not to Be a Boring Husband and Become a Happily Divorced Man!

So you got through your divorce and starting to date again after 50? Now what? According to Steve Horsmon, the founder of Good Guys 2 Great Men, that’s one of the biggest concerns of divorced men who haven’t dated in many years. Now what do I do? Steve offers candid tongue-in-cheek advice for shedding the […]

Relationships after 50: Wife Wants a Divorce? Men Helping Men Defuse the Divorce Bomb!

My wife wants a divorce? Every year, thousand of men feel blindsided by their wife’s “sudden” announcement that she wants a divorce. What now? Can you defuse the divorce bomb? Unlike most women, “most men don’t have a support system of friends to help get their heads straight and deal with relationship issues”, explains Steve […]

Divorce after 50: Why Do We Overlook How Gray Divorce Affects Adult Children?

Gray Divorce, the term coined for couples divorcing after 50, has doubled over the past two decades. For those 60 and older, the divorce rate has tripled. While there are many underlying reasons why, one is that couples wait until their children are adults to leave an unfulfilled marriage, because “now the children will be […]

Divorce after 50: Avoiding Some Common Mistakes of Gray Divorce! What Men and Women Need to Know!

Are you among the record number of men and women going through divorce after 50? You’re not alone. While divorce is always difficult, gray divorce presents unique challenges and misconceptions for those over 50. Today, retired Family Court Judge and Divorce Attorney DeAnne Salcido covers what men and women need to know for avoiding some […]

Divorce after 50: Would You Ever Get Married Again? Redefining Happily Ever After!

Having divorced after 50, would you ever get married again? Your answer will likely depend on how raw the experience remains. Surprisingly, for both divorced women and men over 50, getting married again is a high probability. In fact, research shows that most people over 50 remarry within four years after their divorce. DeAnn Salcido, […]

Why Do More Women Initiate Divorce after 50 Than Men? The Truth About Gray Divorce!

Why do so many more women than men initiate divorce after 50? A prevailing question about gray divorce from our male viewers who frequently state that “they were blindsided” when their wife “suddenly announced” that she wanted a divorce. Retired Family Court Judge and practicing Divorce Attorney, DeAnn Salcido, shares her professional and personal views […]

Feeling Guilty for Wanting a Divorce? Dealing with the Guilt of Leaving a Long Term Marriage!

Are you feeling guilty because you want a divorce and leave your long-term marriage? You’re not alone! The guilt you feel when leaving someone who is not a “bad person” but you know that “you don’t want to live like this the rest of your life” can be overwhelming! You feel like something must be […]

Relationships after 50: Do I Stay or Do I Go? Making the Decision to Leave Your Relationship, or Not

Are you struggling with the decision to end a relationship after 50, or not? Do I stay, or do I go? You’re not alone! One in four marriages after 50 now ends in divorce, and man or woman, making the decision to end your long-term relationship is agonizing, especially when you have 20-plus years invested […]

Love after 50: Why Stay in an Unfulfilled Relationship? How to Make the Best of an Unhappy Marriage

Why stay in an unhappy marriage or relationship is a question many couples over 50 ponder more often with age. A series of studies suggest that ‘our expected future satisfaction is a key indicator of whether or not we choose to stay in an unhappy relationship’. In other words, if we believe there is a […]

Marriage after 50: Are You Resistant to Couples Counseling? Taking a Pro-Active Approach!

Are you resistant to seeking couples counseling for your marriage or relationship after 50? With almost 50% of all marriages in the United States ending in divorce, and with couples over 50 in long-term marriages splitting up at record rates, why are so many of us resistant to the idea of getting help? As with […]

Love and Marriage After 50: What Do Women Want? Advice from a Divorced Man Who Found Out Too Late

An article written by a divorced man in a long-term marriage who lost the women he loved prompted our discussion today on love and marriage after 50. What do women want and need? An important relationship question, since a staggering number of women over 50 are now leaving long-term marriages. Why are so many men […]

Life after 50: Is a Midlife Crisis Really a Bad Thing? The Telltale Signs of a Midlife Crisis!

Most of us would agree that the reference to a midlife crisis is generally perceived as a bad thing. But is a midlife crisis really all that bad? A midlife crisis could simply be a time when we start to question our self and what we are doing with our life; more of a wakeup […]