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Desire and Intimacy after 50: The Importance of Non-Sexual Touch in Your Relationship!

Do you and your partner have a huge gap in desire when it comes to intimacy after 50? If so, do you also have a steep decline in touching? You’re not alone! Typically, the partner with lower desire will stop touching the other because most any touch is construed as an invite for physical intimacy. […]

Silke Schwarzkopf

March 12, 2020

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Intimacy after 50: Is Your Desire in Sync with Your Partner? What Women Need to Know!

Is your desire for intimacy in sync with your partner? While some changes in desire are normal, when a couple starts to differ significantly in their level of desire for intimacy, they are bound to experience distress and confusion in the relationship. Why has desire taken a nosedive? A sensitive topic that’s hard to discuss! […]

Silke Schwarzkopf

December 17, 2019

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Intimacy after 50: Does a Low Libido Have Your Relationship at Risk? Menopause & Loss of Libido

On the topic of intimacy after 50, it is not unusual for couples to have a disparity in libido once midlife hits and menopause is in full swing. Is a low libido putting your relationship at risk? Are you afraid to talk about it? Today, we’re inviting that conversation. Menopause is a confusing and turbulent […]

Silke Schwarzkopf

February 28, 2019

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Intimacy after 50: The Importance of NonSexual Touch. What Women Wished Men Knew!

Do you feel like every time your partner touches you he is just after sex? A prevalent thought (mostly held by women) in relationships after 50, especially in long-term marriages, where – over the years – resentment built and intimacy declined. When it comes to intimacy, the differences between men and women are glaring. Men […]

Silke Schwarzkopf

February 12, 2019

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Finding Love after 50: Does Sexual History Matter? Putting an End to Sexual Shame

Does your sexual history really matter when finding love again and starting a new relationship after 50? Surprisingly, even at this age, the question of how many sexual partners we’ve had comes up more often than not, stirring up unnecessary feelings of insecurity and sexual shame. According to Sexual Health Advocate Bonnie Gayle, our number […]

Silke Schwarzkopf

September 13, 2018

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Safe Sex after 50: What We Need to Know about Avoiding and Talking About STDs without Shame!

STDs have become a common reality for modern adults after 50. What do we need to know about contracting STDs, and how do we talk to a new partner about STDs and STIs? We live longer and healthier, divorce later in life, date online, and start new relationships after 50. All of this contributes to […]

Silke Schwarzkopf

July 26, 2018

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Reigniting Intimacy after 50: How to Create and Maintain Sizzling Sex after 50!

What is the key to create and maintain hot and sizzling sex after 50, when desire has plunged? According to Sex and Relationship Coach Frank Wiegers, the key to creating and maintaining hot and sizzling sex after 50 is to reestablish an intimate connection with your partner. The simple act of touching will fire up […]

Silke Schwarzkopf

July 19, 2018

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Understanding and Letting Go of Sexual Shame to Fully Enjoy Intimacy after 50

Is sexual shame keeping you from truly enjoying intimacy after 50? Sexual shame is rooted in thousands of years of sexual oppression, and shows up in many different ways, including shame about being too sexual, shame about specific desires, and shame about sex being sinful. After 50, sexual shame takes on a whole new role […]

Silke Schwarzkopf

July 17, 2018

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Best Sex after 50: The G-Spot Controversy. Does It Exist? What Every Woman (and Man) Needs to Know

It is perhaps one of the most controversial debates in sexual function: is there or isn’t there a G-spot? And if there is, how do we find it? The controversy surrounding the G-spot comes about because there is no consensus over just what exactly the G-spot is, and how to find it if we haven’t […]

Silke Schwarzkopf

June 28, 2018

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What Exactly Is The G-Spot? What It Is and How to Find It! Straight Talk for Great Sex after 50

What exactly is the G-Spot? Few parts of the female body have been debated as much as the elusive G-spot. Some experts describe the G-spot as an area of increased sensitivity and erotic pleasure located in the vagina, while others deny its existence entirely. According to sexual health expert Frank Wiegers – the Founder of […]

Silke Schwarzkopf

June 26, 2018

Sex after 60: Fifty Shades of Grey Meets Book Club

Ran across a great article with Boomer perspective from Sabine Reichel in Better after 50. The movie “Book Club” would not have been made even 5-years ago. The climate for women in their 2nd Act has changed drastically – a big thumbs up from 2nd Act TV. And while the critics are being tough on […]

Silke Schwarzkopf

June 8, 2018

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Myth or No Myth: Does the G-Spot Exist? Sexual Health after 50

By popular demand, today we address the controversial question around sexual functioning, is there really a G-spot? And if there is, how do we find it? Fast forward to sexual health after 50, how does menopause affect the elusive G-spot, or not? While some women state – without a doubt – that there is a […]

Silke Schwarzkopf

June 5, 2018