Sex and Intimacy49 Videos

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Desire and Intimacy after 50: Got an Elephant in the Bedroom? What Men and Women Need to Know!

How is your desire for intimacy, or the lack thereof, affecting your relationship after 50? Chances are that if intimacy has declined or come to a halt in your relationship you are not talking about it – especially if you are a man. As author and radio host Robert Manni explains, lack of intimacy in […]

Silke Schwarzkopf

August 29, 2019

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Intimacy after 50: Does a Low Libido Have Your Relationship at Risk? Menopause & Loss of Libido

On the topic of intimacy after 50, it is not unusual for couples to have a disparity in libido once midlife hits and menopause is in full swing. Is a low libido putting your relationship at risk? Are you afraid to talk about it? Today, we’re inviting that conversation. Menopause is a confusing and turbulent […]

Silke Schwarzkopf

February 28, 2019

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Intimacy after 50: The Importance of NonSexual Touch. What Women Wished Men Knew!

Do you feel like every time your partner touches you he is just after sex? A prevalent thought (mostly held by women) in relationships after 50, especially in long-term marriages, where – over the years – resentment built and intimacy declined. When it comes to intimacy, the differences between men and women are glaring. Men […]

Silke Schwarzkopf

February 12, 2019

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Sexuality after 50: How Will Cancer and Chemotherapy Affect My Sex Life?

Sexuality is an important factor in quality of life after 50. So what happens if you receive a cancer diagnosis and undergo chemotherapy? How will cancer affect your sex life? A difficult topic to discuss even with your doctor. It is common for women to struggle with their body image, have less desire for sexual […]

Silke Schwarzkopf

September 27, 2018

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Finding Love after 50: Does Sexual History Matter? Putting an End to Sexual Shame

Does your sexual history really matter when finding love again and starting a new relationship after 50? Surprisingly, even at this age, the question of how many sexual partners we’ve had comes up more often than not, stirring up unnecessary feelings of insecurity and sexual shame. According to Sexual Health Advocate Bonnie Gayle, our number […]

Silke Schwarzkopf

September 13, 2018

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Intimacy after 50: Are Antidepressants Affecting Your Libido? Coping with Sexual Side Effects

Have antidepressants killed your libido? Maintaining a healthy sex life can present mounting challenges for those of us over 50, and antidepressants don’t help. Depression can rob us of our desire to be intimate, and it’s ironic that certain drugs used to treat depression can be just as bad on our libido, if not worse. […]

Silke Schwarzkopf

September 6, 2018

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Low Libido after 50: Simple Tips to Wake Up Your Body and Jumpstart Your Libido!

Loss of desire is an all too common occurrence after 50, and often accompanied by feelings of guilt and shame when our partner is in the mood and we are not. For a variety of reasons, hormonal changes topping the list, our libido takes a dive as we age and it becomes necessary to take […]

Silke Schwarzkopf

August 23, 2018

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Sexuality after 50: The Shame Nobody Talks About. Putting an End to Shaming Our Body Parts!

When it comes to sexuality after 50, one of the most common shame issues nobody talks about is body part shame, specifically vagina and penis shame. A simple Google search reveals millions of hits focused around “am I normal”. This comes to no surprise! Popular culture and the adult entertainment industry have done a great […]

Silke Schwarzkopf

August 9, 2018

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Safe Sex after 50: What We Need to Know about Avoiding and Talking About STDs without Shame!

STDs have become a common reality for modern adults after 50. What do we need to know about contracting STDs, and how do we talk to a new partner about STDs and STIs? We live longer and healthier, divorce later in life, date online, and start new relationships after 50. All of this contributes to […]

Silke Schwarzkopf

July 26, 2018

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Sex after 50: What Women (and Men) Need to Know about Training Your Body to Achieve Vaginal Orgasms!

Have you ever felt dysfunctional as a woman because you have never achieved a vaginal orgasm? You’re not alone. Historically, women (and men) have been misled by the likes of Freud who said that the only mature orgasm was a “vaginal orgasm”. Yet, 70% of women need some kind of clitoral stimulation to have an […]

Silke Schwarzkopf

July 24, 2018

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Reigniting Intimacy after 50: How to Create and Maintain Sizzling Sex after 50!

What is the key to create and maintain hot and sizzling sex after 50, when desire has plunged? According to Sex and Relationship Coach Frank Wiegers, the key to creating and maintaining hot and sizzling sex after 50 is to reestablish an intimate connection with your partner. The simple act of touching will fire up […]

Silke Schwarzkopf

July 19, 2018

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Understanding and Letting Go of Sexual Shame to Fully Enjoy Intimacy after 50

Is sexual shame keeping you from truly enjoying intimacy after 50? Sexual shame is rooted in thousands of years of sexual oppression, and shows up in many different ways, including shame about being too sexual, shame about specific desires, and shame about sex being sinful. After 50, sexual shame takes on a whole new role […]

Silke Schwarzkopf

July 17, 2018